Sweet Mess Community Gathering — 11-14 June 2026

Written By Sonia Kaur

Queer-centred juicy BIPoC Community Weekend

A space for pleasure, sensuality, desire, joy & play, and coming home to the body

What this space is about

This gathering centers pleasure as a life force, sensuality in many forms, and the body as a site of wisdom, connection and aliveness.

We welcome diverse expressions of intimacy, touch, eros, and creativity — beyond normative frameworks and in co-creation with the beautiful surrounding Nature.

Together, we move with questions like:

  • What does pleasure mean to me?

  • How do I experience sensuality in my body?

  • What brings me joy, softness and aliveness?

  • How does play feel like in my body?

  • How can desire exist beyond narrow definitions of sexuality?

  • What does it mean to co-create safer, joyful, and consensual spaces together?

The Frame: A self-organized weekend

We offer a gentle structure to arrive and land together:

  • Opening circle & welcome

  • Community agreements

  • “Coming into the body” session

  • Consent workshop

  • Clear introduction before any play space

From there, the space becomes alive through us. Workshops, quiet corners, playful moments, unexpected encounters — shaped by what we bring. You are invited to come with your gifts, curiosities, and desires. We co-create the space by:

  • Offering sessions or practices

  • Contributing to care (music, snacks, setup, cleanup…)

  • Holding shared responsibility for a respectful, nourishing space

What to expect:

  • Movement & somatics

  • Touch & massage explorations

  • Playful & creative practices

  • Desire, intimacy & connection

  • Moments of joy, laughter & collective celebration

  • Rituals, music, textures, tastes & odors

  • Rest, grounding & integration

  • Sensuality & sexuality

We hold a wide spectrum of possibilities:

  • Sensual space

  • Touch, connection, pleasure & aliveness beyond sexuality

  • Optional sex-positive space

  • A clearly guided play space for more explicit exploration — based on consent, communication, and care

  • Shared areas remain non-genital and connection-based.

All spaces will be clearly framed.

DETAILS

  • Location: Reichenow (near Berlin)

    • House, barn, nature, lake nearby

  • Sleeping Arrangement: Small group (max. 18 people)

    • Rooms + shared sleeping spaces

  • 💸 : 250€ (incl. food & stay)

  • 🍲: Vegan food will be provided

If you feel resonance, come as you are. Bring your curiosity, desires & softness. Let’s co-create a juicy Sweet Mess 🫠

For registration, fill up this form: https://tinyurl.com/QTBIPoC-sweetmess

Other questions? Reach out to juicysweetmess@proton.me

Sonia Kaur
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